Is it usually true that the second child has better parents than the first? - inexperienced models
Since no one teaches anyone how to be a father again, it seems that the first child is always a test model, with the parents without experience, but at the time that the second coming, the parents have learned from their mistakes and learn more about what to expect, so that the children's parents get a better grip. Is that true? This explains why different children of a family behave differently?
Thursday, February 4, 2010
Inexperienced Models Is It Usually True That The Second Child Has Better Parents Than The First?
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I am the eldest of 5 brothers and they are all very different.
The truth is that 2 (and subsequent) children are raised by a second group of parents, older brothers and sisters. You need to have an effect. 2 Most of the children I have met more intelligent than their brothers and sisters older. Including my brother. You also have the advantage of seeing the oldest son gets into trouble and the impact of this problem.
Also, most at the end of the game is by all standards for the remaining children. So, if you have an old car, and wrecks, the youngest just screwed. Things like that.
And assess your parents just tired, tired, difficult and trying to "perfect" parents. When my younger brothers came to be, my parents would be happy if one day he went away without screaming my blood, or fighting for food. "Babies" (now 30 and 31) were with what we've been through for more success on the left.
That's life.
The second time, they tend to recognize that children break down not so easy. Therefore, the baby is more relaxed.
I disagree. I think everything depends on the child's relationship with the parents. Sometimes older children have a compatible relationship with the parent (s) in other cases, the youngest. The most consistent relationships are better, ER, the easier it is for all parties. I have two children, and the truth, the second time, I have more experience, but it is only to change diapers, diseases, nutrition, etc. The personality of the children are very different and that the treatment of various topics. That is, I think the best parents are those who agree that children and other parents to find what works individually with each child, is a hit!
Test model? Otherwise, I was more mature with my daughter. My kids are almost 9 years apart. The things I said to my son, not my daughter. Every child is different, it could be quite different ways of raising children. It is not like the programming on your TV. Parenting is basically a guessing game. When you do things and also with a son, I hope and pray that works with others.
That is not true, because the new parents desire a child and are willing to do something for them and make them happy.
uhhh yeah, the first child of the practice, the confidence of a child that I know from experience
I just knew in my first (and I was 21 when he) what I wanted .. Teaching morals, values, love ... all the important things. Now that I'm older (am almost 36), if I am smarter, but I also know that taught me patience, which are often lacking when they are younger ... I have no patience with the children much more now than when I was 24 and had just 2 ... (and yes I am) still teach all the right things.
I think so! But if parents are just as carefully to the child in the first place, because they by what they can do something bad, frightened, but when it comes, second, they can already know what is best and I think that's why younger Children are messy! Well, at least in my case, I'm the oldest and I are better behaved than my brothers! :)
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